2008 ~ June 26-29 18th Annual Cher’s family Cranial Facial Convention in Wheeling, IL

Day 1:  Thursday, June 26, 2008

18 ANNUAL CHER'S FAMILY RETREAT

JUNE 26-29 2008 MYRTLE BEACH SC

SHERATON MYRTLE BEACH CONVENTION HOTEL

Thursday, June 26^th

2:00-5:00: Registration

6:30-10:00: Ice Cream Social (dinner on your own)

Friday, June 27^th      

7:30-9:00: Breakfast

10:00-4:00: Ripley’s Aquarium & Broadway at the Beach

Buses will begin loading at 9:30. We will be going to the aquarium and then staying at Broadway at the Beach, which is loaded with fun places. Buses will be able to take you back to the hotel throughout the day. Lunch is on your own.

www.ripleysaquarium.com  www.broadwayatthebeach.com       

6:30-10:00: Family Night with Talent Show and Chance Raffle (dinner provided) & CCA Teen Luau Party (at the hotel)

Saturday, June 28^th

7:30-9:00: Breakfast

11:00-4:00: Beach Party

Boxed lunches will be served at the hotel from 11:00-1:00. Buses will start taking families to the beach at 11:00 and can take you back to the hotel throughout the day.

6:30-10:30: Dinner/Dance with DJ

Sunday, June 29^th

7:30-9:00: Breakfast

Thursday morning, I woke up at 3:30 A.M., dressed, and called Lora at 4:30 A.M. We left her house at 6:00 A.M.  It was still too early for the kids so they all went back to sleep.

We stopped at Steak and Shake just off I-20 for lunch.

I ordered a hamburger with unsweetened tea, Lora and Madison split a hamburger with fries, and Marcus and Madison both ordered milkshakes. 

Meadow ate some of my hamburger and she drank a cup of milk.

We again loaded into the van and onto I-20 toward Atlanta.

For a snack, we have been eating cheese rice cakes and drinking sodas.

We stopped to fill up with gas and ordered a sandwich at Subway which was in the same building as the service station.

We ordered two twelve-inch subs, each of us ordered a Coke, and Madison ordered three sugar cookies.

I spent seven dollars. 

Marcus was starting to get restless from all the riding, we had been on the road since 6 A.M., and he kept saying are we there yet.

Finally, we arrived at Myrtle Beach but the GPS system had taken us to the wrong address.

We will be staying at the Sheraton Hotel on Twenty-first Street and the old one was along the Atlantic Ocean.

While Lora had gone inside to get the correct address, the kids got out of the car ran through the sand, and jumped into the Atlantic Ocean. 

I took Meadow out of the van and we sat in the sand along the beach. 

When Lora came out of the hotel, she started looking for us, she saw that Marcus was soaking wet, so she made him take his clothes off and wrapped him in a towel and that is how he was dressed when we arrived at the Sheraton Hotel.

Lora checked us into the hotel at 7:00 P.M., we took our luggage to the room after we freshened up, we took the elevator to the lobby, where there was a social gathering of families attending the cranial facial convention.

Lora registered all of us for the CCA Convention. 

Everyone gets tickets for Ripley’s Aquarium, and a CCA tee-shirt to wear when we attend the aquarium.

We spent a few hours getting acquainted with some of the families. 

We were exhausted from the trip, so we went back to the room and went to bed.

Madison slept with me, and Marcus and Meadow slept with Lora.

Day 2: Friday, June 27, 2008

Breakfast was served outside from 7:30 till 9:30 A.M. at the Sheraton Hotel, which consisted of cereals, and bagels, with cream cheese, the fruit of strawberries, pineapple, muskmelon, cantaloupe, and grapes. To drink there was orange juice.

At 9:30 A.M., everyone dressed in matching CCA tee-shirts and we took the bus to Ripley’s Aquarium, located at Broadway on the Beach.

The Sheraton Hotel where we stayed

Standing behind the hotel

Waiting for the bus 

Shallow Lagoons is at Friendships Flats where everyone is encouraged to touch the different types of Rays.

There was an attendant to help the children with the  Atlantic Rays, the Southern Rays, the Cow Nosed Rays, the Spotted Eagle Rays, and the Bonnet Head Shark. 

We saw Sandtiger sharks, nurse sharks, southern stingrays, cow nose rays, sawfish, sea turtles, snapper, tarpons, goliath groupers, moray eels, green moray eels, schoolmaster fish, jellyfish, seahorses, squirrelfish, and octopus inside an 87,000 square foot aquarium that was filled with 750,00 gallons of water.

We were guided along on a moving sidewalk. 

Marcus holding a horseshoe crab

The kids pick up the horseshoe crabs at the Sea-For-Yourself Discovery Center. 

In the freshwater Rio Amazon exhibit, we saw piranhas, and other exotic species unique to the Amazon Rainforest. We saw octopuses, sea anemones, living coral, Jellyfish, and weedy sea dragons in the Living Gallery.

Once outside the aquarium, we walked to Pavilion Park where Lora bought twenty tickets for the kids to ride the attractions there. 

Marcus and Madison rode the flying pirate ship.

Marcus, Madison, and I rode the caterpillar and the merry-go-round.

Marcus and Meadow rode the boats, and Lora, Madison, and Marcus rode the swings. 

Lora had nine tickets left, and she said we could use them tomorrow at the NASA Park, Marcus, Jr., wanted to ride the go-carts. 

We ate lunch at Jimmy Buffet’s Margaretville 1114 Celebrity Cir Myrtle Beach, SC 29577

(843) 448-5455

Lora and I split a Caesar salad, the Catch of the Day, which was Mahi Mahi, grilled with fresh vegetables, island rice, and mango salsa.

Marcus and Madison ordered grilled Mahi, Mahi from the children’s menu. 

Wendelyn from Faces came with us, she ordered the cheeseburger in Paradise. Lora and I both ordered unsweetened iced tea and the kid’s sodas.

In Jimmy Buffett’s Restaurant, we sat at the first come, first serve table, which was just below the brewing hurricane that contained a large orange bottle of margarita.

When the hurricane hit, it caused a gigantic pitcher to fill up with a margarita, it was more than enough for everyone to drink his or her fill.

Brewing hurricane that contained a large orange bottle of margarita.

We went through Jimmy Buffett’s gift shop, but we did not buy anything.

We stopped at River Street Sweets, tried their samples, and bought some chocolate-covered pretzels. 

We went to the Disney store, I bought a Minnie tank top, a pair of shorts, and a tank top with Tinker Bell printed on them.

Lora bought Marcus, some pajamas which he put on and wore all day, and she bought Meadow a Finding Nemo one-piece suit and wristband.  

Disney Store 1308 Celebrity Cir # B. Myrtle Beach, SC 29577 (843) 626-2610

We rode the bus back to the hotel, and we all went for a swim in the swimming pool, which was on the third floor. 

We talked with Brittany, who has Nager syndrome, and Harlena, her mom, they are from Philadelphia, Pa.

Supper will be from  6:30 to 10:00 P.M. with a talent show and a raffle. 

Tonight is pizza night where we can choose from several varieties of pizzas, along with a salad, fruit, and sweets.

The little girl without a face Juliana Wetmore, Tammy, her mother, her grandmother, and her sister sat at our table.
http://www.firstcoastnews.com/story/news/health/2014/05/21/born-without-face-juliana-treacher-collins/9336489/

Juliana's birth defect is called Treacher Collins Syndrome.

The doctors said it was the worst case they had ever seen. 

Juliana has no upper jaw, no cheekbones, no eye sockets and she is missing the corner of her ear. 

In the lobby I talked to Samantha Klinger's parents, Samantha has Apert Syndrome they are here from Convoy, Illinois.

Lexie Adams has Crozn Syndrome they came here from Tacoma, WA. 

Olivia Sandborn has Pfeiffer Syndrome and her parents, Mark and Laurel, they are here from Richmond, VA. 

Our room is on the fourth floor with an ocean view, it has two plush double beds, a bathroom with a shower, a coffee maker, a television, and a refrigerator.

View from our room

Marcus Jr and  Meadow slept with me.

Day 3: Saturday, June 28, 2008

Breakfast will be from 7:30 to 9:30 inside. 

They are serving eggs, bacon, biscuits, fruit, jelly, and orange juice. 

It is almost 9:30 a.m.  Madison and Marcus are still in bed, and Lora takes them to breakfast.

Boxed lunch will be passed out from 11:30 to 1:00 P.M.  

The box lunches consist of ham, roast beef, and turkey sandwiches, with apples, chips, cookies, water, or Pepsi.
Everyone is going to the beach, it is within walking distance.

We walked a few blocks but it was too hot, so we walked back to the hotel, loaded the van, and drove to the beach.

I played with Meadow in the sand while the older kids played in the ocean.

When we were ready to go Madison started jumping up and down because she had gotten sand in the bottom of her swimsuit and it was burning her butt.

We rode back to the hotel where everyone took a shower to remove the sand.

We loaded again into the van and rode to NASA Park where the kids used the remaining nine tickets. Meadow rode the Ferries wheel, Madison rode the cups, and Marcus rode the go-carts. 

Some strange man gave Meadow & Madison a necklace and a picture.

We went to the 3-D I-Max to watch the Sea Monsters.  

We watched the stunning photo-realistic, computer-generated, animation, that transported us back to the late Cretaceous when the great inland sea divided North America in two. 

The film follows a curious and adventurous dolichorhynchops familiarly known as a dolly travels through the most dangerous oceans in history. 

Along the way, she encounters long-necked plesiosaurs, giant turtles, enormous fish, fierce sharks, and the most dangerous sea monster the mosasaur. 

This was a forty-five-minute show with special seating at the top for wheelchairs. The cost was $11.50 each, no cost for Meadow.

We walked back to the Disney Store where I bought a pair of Tinker Bell shorts and a Tinker Bell Tee shirt.

Disney Store

Lora bought Meadow a Minnie one-piece suit with a matching wristband and a bubble blower. She bought Madison some pajamas. 

In the Disney store, we got separated, I looked everywhere for Lora and the kids, but I could not find them anywhere. 

I walked to RideMakerz because I knew that Marcus wanted to build a car, but they were not there.

I thought to myself that they might be at RideMakerz and had walked back to the van, but they were not there. 

I called Lora on her cell phone, but she did not answer. 

I decided to sit down at the waterspout which was near the I-max and the exit. 

I sat near the waterspout for about an hour, I thought to myself that Lora and the kids had more than enough time for them to walk around Broadway on the Beach, but they were nowhere in sight. 

While I was sitting at the waterspout, I watched several kids running, jumping, and playing in the water. 

I saw a man with his two daughters, they were getting ready to leave when I heard him tell his girls to make a run for it to beat the water. 

The man took off running, slipped, and fell right on his butt.

No running signs are everywhere. 

I decided to walk to RideMakerz, where Marcus was just finishing up making his car. 

Marcus and his Ridemakerz

We rode back to the hotel, dinner was from 7:30 to 9:30 p.m., and dancing lasted until 10:30 P.M. 

We were running late and could not find a handicap park so Lora parked along the side of the hotel. 

Dinner was a sit-down event where we were served grilled chicken, chicken fingers, fries, potatoes, green beans, salad, and carrot cake, with tea and iced water.

There was a DJ who was playing a variety of music until 10:30 P.M.

The dance floor was full of people dancing, Scott was in his hover dancing.

Everyone joined in making a train on the dance floor.

Jaci did a solo country dance. 

We went to our room at 10:30 P.M. after a night of dancing and socializing.  

Madison turned on the TV,  Marcus and Meadow went to sleep,  I read Song of the Exile and Lora went upstairs to meet with other parents of CCA and stayed until 12 P.M. Madison slept in the bed with me. 

Day 4: Sunday, June 29, 2008

We missed breakfast because we slept until  9:00 A.M.

We checked out, loaded the van, and headed to Broadway on the Beach. 

Marcus picked what he wanted to do yesterday, today Madison gets to pick what she wants to do today.

Hard Rock Cafe

Madison says she wants to eat lunch at the Hard Rock Café.

The Hard Rock Cafe is designed like an Egyptian Temple. 

The front of the cafe has several stone steps leading to the top, once inside you have to climb down several stone steps to get to the dining area of the restaurant.

The side of the cafe is wheelchair accessible with an elevator once inside.

For lunch, we ordered the Jumbo Combo appetizer: which included Santa Fe rolls, hickory smoked chicken wings, onion rings, potato skins, and Tupelo chicken fingers served with four different sauces.

Lora and I split a 7 oz. Angus beef HRC burger with fries. Madison orders a kid’s hamburger with fries, Marcus eats all the hickory smoked chicken wings, and Meadow eats the chicken fingers. 

Lora and I ordered unsweetened tea, and the kids ordered sodas.

Hard Rock Café  1322 Celebrity Circle Myrtle Beach, SC 29577 843-946-0007

Lora and Marcus are at RideMakerz, where Marcus is getting a wheel for his car.

Madison and I walked to the Build-A-Bear workshop, Lora, Marcus, and Meadow are going to meet us there. Madison chose a Panda Bear, which she named Yoyo, the clothes she chose for him were a pair of khaki shorts, a Myrtle Beach Tee, and brown sandals. 

Build-A-Bear Workshop is located at 1301 Celebrity Cir Myrtle Beach, SC 29577 (843) 445-7675.      

Madison and Yoyo

We then walk to River Street Sweets where we buy some salt water taffy, and chocolate pretzel, and the kids each get a bag of candy. 

I spent $5.95 on taffy, $2.50 on chocolate-covered pretzels, and $2.00 on an orange drink. 

Senior Frogs 

At 2:00 P.M. we leave Broadway on the Beach and start the long ride home.

Somewhere in Alabama, we stopped at McDonald's for supper where Lora ordered a couple of chicken wraps, two apple pies, and a tea.

Before we leave McDonalds Lora spills her tea,  she walks inside to get a refill. 

Lora drives until says she is too tired to drive any further so I take over driving at 10 P.M. and drive home.

We arrived home around 1A.M. in the morning and I so am exhausted that I went right to bed.

2014, Wednesday, May 15, Workshop Florence Library with Bill Huddleson UNA Front Porch Storytelling Festival

12:30-3:30PM

I attended a workshop with Bill at the Florence Library. Bill said, I am not Dolores and he was right he was not, but that did not mean he was not good.  

He used a different approach to storytelling and he made it fun. 

We broke up into several groups and did several different activities.

One activity was” Making the Right Move.”

This was an activity that involved two people A & B. 

The next activity including doing the following singing, mimicking, reading looking at one another, reading standing back to back, reading while sitting, reading while standing, we whispered the words, and we lip read the following:

Dropkick me sweet Jesus over the goalpost of life!

All my ex-s live in Texas so I live in Tennessee!

It’s been so lonesome in the saddle since my horse died!

Another activity we were given was to read a story and re-tale it to our partner.

King Solomon and Fate was the story that I had to re-tale to my partner. The moral of my story was when death looks you in the face; no matter how hard you try, you cannot outrun your fate. 

The story my partner re-told was about a bird and a Turtle.

The bird and the turtle needed to go east for the winter but the turtle could not fly so, the bird said, I will help you but you must not let go of the stick. 

When the two animals were in the air flying, they looked down at their friends and the turtle thought I am flying! 

So, the turtle lets go, to tell his friend goodbye, and when the turtle lets go, he fell to the ground. 

The moral of this story is you cannot fly without wings!!!!!!

We were told to tell a story about growing up.

We split into a large group and re-told our story to everyone in our group.

One woman told me about growing up and going to a one-room school, about not getting her favorite teacher until the third grade. 

Another told about growing up in Canada, how cold it was, and her father was a Canadian Soldier. 

Another woman told me about family ties. How some of the relatives had moved up north to work, but always came home for family gatherings. 

She told a story about a young couple who were expecting their first child and it died shortly after birth. 

Her relatives did not have the money to come home but came home anyway. They packed as many as possible into their small car and drove all the way home just, to find that the infant had already been buried.

I had fun and was given a certificate of attendance. Those three hours went by fast and I would love to do it again.

2014 ~ Friday, May 16, UNA Front Porch Storytelling Workshop with Dolores Hydock at George Lindsey Theater UNA

8:30-11:30AM

Today, I attended the Storytelling Workshop at George Lindsey Theater at UNA.  I was not sure where the theater was located so my husband lets me out at the Arts and Music building. I walked around trying to locate where the workshop was finally, I spotted a room with the light on and saw a woman inside. 

I opened the door and said could you please tell me where the Storytelling Workshop is being held. She grabbed her keys and said sure follow me. She locked the door to her office and off we went. I told her that I was getting flustered and agitated. I followed her to the George Lindsey Theater and she showed me the room where the workshop was being held. I thanked her and she went back to work and I joined the workshop.

Our group leader was Dolores.

 Our first exercise was introducing ourselves using a descriptive word beginning with the same letter as our first name. 

We started with Wonderful Wanda, Sassy Susan, Vibrant Vivian, Audacious Amy, Caring Carol, Sad, and Friendly Freda. I cannot remember the other two women’s name but I remember one was an animal lover and she owned many dogs and cats.

Dolores talked about Steve Jobs. Jobs said, “that being creative is just connecting things.”

Delores used an example of James Webb Young’s two key ideas to be creative. One was the idea of a new combination and the second was the ability to make combinations. 

Delores also showed us the works of Norman Rockwell and his idea of collision of two worlds.

Next, we were told to close our eyes and think of a toy or animal that we remembered as a child. To imagine the clothes we were wearing, the sounds we heard, the texture of the toy or animal. We were just told to bring these images to life in our imagination. 

We then broke up into groups of three’s and had to describe to the others in our group what we remembered. 

Amy and Freda were in my group.

Amy’s told her story and it was a baby doll that could sing happy birthday.

Amy took this doll everywhere, and she never left home without her baby doll. Amy remembered playing in her grandmother yard while holding her doll and hearing the porch swing. Amy did not remember when her baby doll quit singing happy birthday.

Freda’s told the story about the bride doll she wanted badly but her family

Was very poor and could not afford the doll. 

When Freda would go to town with her family, she would see this bride doll in the store window. 

On Christmas when Freda was in the first grade she was surprised with the bride doll.

Freda had several brothers and no sister so the doll was never played with.

When Freda was older and married her mom gave birth to a baby girl 

Freda was so excited that she finally had a sister. 

Freda loved her sister so much that she gave the bride doll to her.

To Freda, having a sister was more important than having a bride doll.

Dolores said, “ I want each of you to go outside and see what you can find using your senses.”

We each spent about twenty minutes exploring and brought our ideas back to class.

 A man had joined our class and he talked about rain and how birds were supposed to quit singing when it was going to rain but the birds just kept singing.

Another told about sitting on a wooden bench and how it brought back memories of her father. He was a farmer, minister and very well dressed. The story behind being well dressed was her father’s family was so poor that her grandmother had to starch the children’s shirts just to keep them together.

Dolores was taking one item from our list and using the snowball effect.

One of the items on my list was a yellow cab in the parking lot at UNA.

Dolores said what does the yellow cab bring to mind.

I said when I was a schoolgirl, there was the neighbor girl who was a cripple and she always took a yellow taxicab to school. I said I had forgotten all about the cripple neighbor girl. 

It is funny how something so simple as a yellow cab can bring back memories.

Dolores started a list of items as we each called out different items to add to the list.

We had to take two items from that list and make our own list of fifteen each. 

One woman made a list of the things she needed for a trip she was going to take.

Another woman made a list of the name of the animals that she owned. 

Another woman made a list of the places she had visited.

Another woman made a list of the things she overcame. 

The three hours went by so fast for I was having a great time. I did not realize that you could learn so much about others so quickly and have fun at the same time.

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